Colby College Student Reviews Ugly Ducklings

Last week, Colby students hosted a screening of Ugly Ducklings during Pride Week. Below is a fabulous review from one of the students!

The Ugly Ducklings Documentary
Sarah Nagel
Issue date: 4/13/07 Section: Arts & Entertainment

On the evening of April 5, a small group of students gathered at a Bridge sponsored event to watch The Ugly Ducklings Documentary and to discuss the harassment of today's gay and lesbian youth. The documentary was produced in a collaborative effort by Hardy Girls, Healthy Women and Greater Waterville's Communities for Children / Youth Coalition and was filmed right here at Colby College.

In an effort to reduce harassment within schools, the film is being distributed to Maine schools along with a community action kit. While the film has very local roots, it attracted attention worldwide through its participation in LGBTQ film festivals in San Francisco, Madrid and Italy. The documentary features interviews with fourteen female actors who participated in a play about bullying and an attempted youth suicide. The actresses discuss their own struggles to overcome harassment and to come to terms with their sexual preferences. The Ugly Duckling puts a very human face on an issue that is all too often ignored and oversimplified.

The film's opening forefronts the devastating consequences of biased based harassment by displaying a short clip of a young girl pulling a noose over her head. The film sites a statistic confirmed by twenty national studies: gay and lesbian youth are 2-5 times more likely to attempt suicide. Another depressing statistic sited by the film is that the typical high school student hears anti-gay slurs 25.5 times a day. Ugly Ducklings explores this world of harassment by switching between personal anecdotes and theatrical drama. While the film clips of the play help dramatize patterns of harassment, the most compelling aspect of the documentary is the personal testimony of the actresses themselves.

Because the actresses come from diverse backgrounds and age groups, their stories are highly accessible. Their experiences speak to the devastating effects of harassment and bullying in schools. While racial minorities may experience discrimination in schools, they can depend on the support of their families and churches. Gay and lesbian youth, however, feel completely alone; their parents are often more homophobic than their classmates. The actresses explain that one of the most troubling aspects of their schooling is their teachers' indifference to name-calling and bullying. Because students look up to their teachers as role models, it is devastating to watch teachers ignore bullying and implicitly support discrimination.

Along with their experiences with harassment within the school system, the women discuss their sexuality and the ways it influences their relationships and beliefs. In a compelling testimony, an actress describes her suicidal feelings as a preteen. Intense feelings of depression are not an uncommon experience among LGBTQ youth. Most felt they would lose everything when they came out: their best friend, their family and their dreams. The good news is that they didn't. Although most parents were reluctant to believe that their children's homosexuality was anything more than a phase, they continued to love and support their child. As one mother explained, "When you have a homosexual child, you have to deconstruct everything you think you know. It does not necessarily mean your child will have a hard life. It does not necessarily mean you won't have grandchildren."

Another prominent issue discussed in Ugly Ducklings is religious beliefs and homophobia within the church. Statements like, "I don't tell my mom I'm bisexual because she doesn't want me to go to hell" emphasize the ways religious communities contribute to homophobia and serve to distance family members. When it comes to increasing tolerance and changing the way people think about homosexuality, addressing religious issues is of the utmost importance. The film touches on this issue by including clips of a woman discussing her sorrow in being alienated from the church. She clings to her beliefs saying, "No one knows what comes between me and my God but me." By using a multiplicity of voices and faces to address problems of harassment, Ugly Duckling promises to become a useful educational tool.

Gay Students are 3-4 Times More Likely to be Bullied

A new study by the Children's Hospital Boston Division of Adolescent Medicine shows that gay youth are 3-4 times more likely to experience bullying and harassment than their heterosexual peers.

"It's clear that sexual minority youth are a population vulnerable to bullying," says researcher Elise Berlan, MD, in the Children's Hospital Boston Division of Adolescent Medicine. "This needs to be addressed, particularly in schools."

What's not mentioned in the article is that this harassment and bullying of LGBTQ youth will usually lead to self-harming behavior. Kids who are bullied at school because of their actual or perceived sexual orientation are more likely to engage in drug and alcohol abuse, be depressed, contemplate and attempt suicide.

It's a real crisis when even our schools aren't safe places for all youth - that's why we've created the Ugly Ducklings Campaign. Find out more about the project on the Ugly Ducklings website. The Ugly Ducklings Community Action Kit contains activities, discussion questions, movie clips, and resources for creating safer, harassment-free schools and communities - places where all kids can grow up healthy and happy.

What's so wrong with that?